Is there someone in your life, that the very sight of them makes your knees shake? They run through your mind all day? For some reason, you make yourself available whenever they need you use you like a sissy?
We all had somebody like that in our lives. As a matter of fact, you might have somebody like that right now. I know, in my life, I have been the victim of infatuation. It’s the worst feeling in the world. You want someone to want you as bad as you want them. You’re so emotionally beaten inside that you’re soul is black and blue.
Maybe the person that interests you has a significant other, or perhaps they’re single. Whatever place they are in their life, it’s unhealthy for you to feel this way about somebody else. So how do we deal with this?
If the person is in a relationship, the best thing you can do is stay away from them. In most cases, time away will make the feelings go away. I know not the advice you were expecting.
Now, if the person is single, you have two choices. You can stay away from them, and over time your feelings will subside. Or you can tell them your sissy feelings. I’ve always chosen to tell people how I feel. Now, I would never tell them that they run through my mind all day. That would make things awkward. I would say that I like them and would like to explore us more and see if they’re interested. If they are interested, you just crossed over a major hurdle. Now, if they’re not interested, the power still belongs to you. You know where they stand. And now you can decide if you want to remain a friend, lover or move away from your interactions with them. In these cases, I believe it’s best to move away; it’s hard to convince someone to want something they don’t want.
So if you ever been stuck in one of those moments in your life. Where are you were like damn, I wish I was your lover. It’s time to figure out your next move.
Sophie B. Hawkins- Damn I wish I was your lover